@windar12q I'm afraid I'm coming very late to this discussion, so I apologize if I rehash something that was already discussed earlier in this lengthy thread. As I understand it, the current question is "How can we know love without knowing hate". I would appreciate some definitions of terms ("know", "love", "hate") so I know exactly what we're talking about. For "love" and "hate", are we talking emotions, the intellectual concepts, some type of Platonic form, or something akin to the "God is Love" statement made earlier? Similarly when we talk about "knowing", what is our epistemological framework? Is this a "knowing by experience" (also, what kind of experience?), a purely intellectual "knowing", a scientific "knowing" (i.e., pure materialistic/deterministic, biochemistry-based knowledge), a philosophical knowing (i.e., rational, but not necessarily scientifically provable (something akin to a statement like, "I feel pain at this moment"--certainly could be as true as anything, but not necessarily provable in a scientific sense)), or something else? My personal view is that the love/hate dichotomy (or spectrum) is analogous to the light/dark or hot/cold spectrum in that they aren't opposite directions on an infinite continuum, but rather that one is ultimately the absence of the other. "Hate", "dark", and "cold", are useful words (they relate to real experiences), but I'm not sure their ontological foundation is completely solid. "Cold" is the absence of heat, and there's a limit to it, i.e., once you reach absolute zero (complete absence of heat), you can't get any colder. Similarly, when there are no photons around, that's as dark as it gets. Analogously, I think "hate" has a similar absolute limit: When there's no love at all, there's no more hate to be had. To your specific question, I can know love without knowing hate in the same way I know the vacuum of space despite never living there (as short a life as that would be). Obviously, this is not a "knowing by direct experience", but more so a rational knowing (I know the physics of pressure) combined with extrapolation from direct experience. Perhaps a better analogy would be "knowing" the cold of absolute zero despite never being close to that cold. I've been very cold before (and very warm for that matter), and from that experience I could extrapolate to even further cold. But in an absolute sense, how have I been cold? Perhaps it's more accurate to say I was just "less warm". Direct experience with something is not necessarily a prerequisite to knowledge unless your definition of knowledge requires direct experience--hence my interest in defining some terms upfront. So, to say I know love and hate is really to say that I know greater and lesser degrees of love. Perhaps money is also a good analogy: I can say I know being poor and being rich, but I'm really describing the experience of having more or less money. Poor and rich are not necessarily describing opposites so much as they're words describing a relative position on a one-dimensional spectrum. Honestly, though, I find this question much less interesting than a discussion on the underpinnings of morality itself. I think I saw you comment at one point on morals being strengthened in the absence of a god. Can you comment more on this? What's ontological foundation of morality? How do we discern what is "moral"? (We should also probably define what we mean by "moral" as well.) Have you read or do you have an opinion on Sam Harris' "The Moral Landscape"?